For far too long Bullying has been overlooked by schools and professionals alike.
So who are the bullies, what do they gain, why do they do it?
Bullies consist of all types of people, but most of all from those who wish to have power and control over others, by making lives unpleasant they seem to fulfill an emptiness in their own. In school they can be pupils or indeed teachers. Bullying teachers are teachers who shout a lot and make unfair or unjust decisions concerning the person they are dealing with. Please let us know if you are suffering from this form of abuse it is the most insiduous that there is.
The Websites Below are websites you can turn to, in time of need, you are not silly or stupid for doing this you are identifying a problem which is very real and you are not at fault in any way.
Also If you are a teacher or someone who likes to shout, please shout at us rather than any child. Shouting is just as bad especially if it is directed at one child in particular.
In case you thought my attack on the child authorities was out of place on the "Teenagers" page look at the above and think again. The increduluos denial of bullying amongst the authorities is criminal. They are often uncaring arrogant and unresponsive towards the needs of children, always streamlining the academics above all else including social difficulties.
How many more children will become victims if our so called professionals ignore what goes on inside our schools.
It was really interesting to find who came up with the slogan "acting in the best interests of the child", it was Hitler himself... An ally indeed? for the delusional authorities ??. Please also remember there is not one school where bullying does not occur worse still, some schools are protected and colluded with by other professionals and the State, this is often where the poison really lies.
Both these sites provide support for older people in the
workplace these charities cover a wide range of bullying issues
it is quite surprising how many people suffer from some form
A superb charity for both those of you are bullied
which can also help those who are bullies.
Just use the search facility on the first page and type "bully"
If you would like to talk to someone outside school
and in confidence, you can phone the
NSPCC Child Protection Helpline on 0808 800 5000
This number can also be used for adults seeking help or advice
This charity has helped thousands of people through very difficult times they offer a full confidential listening service for the cost of a local call.
Lives are precious there is no shame in talking.
You Can Contact Them On
UK 08457 90 90 90,In the Republic of Ireland dial 1850 60 90 90, for the cost of a local call.
Please Remember "In your lonliness you are not alone", there are many people out there who do care, give them a chance you only have one life. Talking can help Give It A Chance.
These Organisations However can be directly responsible for the continuance of bullying and may even discourage your own parents from helping.
The Education Welfare Service. ignorance, denial and cover ups
Your School, It's Board Of Governers, also it's teachers and it's headmaster, by colluding and cover up.
The NHS particulary Paedeatricians and Psychiatrics
Social Services themselves can fail to act in such circumstances.
Local Authorities - Generally Unhelpful, dishonest, unwilling to find or offer alternatives.
All of these organisations claim to put the child first probably none of them do. If You have a problem, and it is not being sorted we are willing to approach the school concerned on your behalf if you wish just email us. If you wish we are also willing to make the matter public.
NEVER CONSIDER SUICIDE OR TAKE YOUR OWN LIFE BULLIES ARE NOT WORTH IT!!!
